Long Term Travel in Mexico

Putting On My Long Term Travel Skin

Mazatlan Sidewalks

Like a man who has two wives, my life shifts back and forth between time at home, where I enjoy all the creature comforts bestowed upon those of us who are lucky enough to live in the United States, and extended international travel, during which I often lack access to even the most basic amenities. Although I long ago stopped experiencing culture shock when visiting other countries, I still need time to settle in each time I hit the road for a bout of long term travel.

When I backpacked around the world in 2007, it took more than a week in Vietnam before I relaxed into the rhythm of traveling. This time around, although it took me just two days to hit my stride, it was the little things that tripped me up. I had forgotten, for instance, that in Mexico, restaurants provide only tiny cafeteria-style napkins at the table. It had also slipped my mind that despite being a coffee-growing country, most locally owned Mexican restaurants do not serve brewed coffee and if they do, it is only available in the morning. For the first two days, I was repeatedly served a cup of hot water and a jar of Nescafe when I ordered coffee with dinner. Walking around town was a potential landmine. If I focused on landmarks in order to get back to my hotel I risked tripping on crazy patchwork sidewalks constructed of ceramic tiles and concrete, rife with standpipes and missing utility box covers. But if I watched my feet I risked getting lost. And then there were the health and hygiene issues. I had to remember not to drink the water (keep mouth shut in shower and do not rinse toothbrush) and to throw my used toilet paper in the wastebasket rather than flushing it.

Yet, there is a grace about Mazatlan and Mazatlecos that eased my way on this particular adventure. Within seconds of pulling a map out of my backpack, someone would inquire if I needed assistance. Unlike other Latin countries, no street urchins have tugged on my clothes and made big eyes, hoping for spare change. Drivers of Pulmonias – vehicles that resemble golf carts but which are really old Volkswagens converted into open-air taxis – slowed down and beeped once politely as they passed but quickly sped away when I shook my head. Everywhere, total strangers nodded and wished me “buenos dias.

Three years ago in Vietnam, because the language was so difficult I learned only the words for thank you and hello and relied on familiar English, allowing the Vietnamese to struggle to communicate with me. However in Mazatlan, because my Spanish is fairly fluent I have been speaking it all day long. Each morning, Spanish words fly out of my mouth and verbs conjugate themselves, but by 5 p.m. my brain is so exhausted that I can’t even string together five Spanish words, much less understand what someone is saying to me.

Philosophers at a chess board

When this language exhaustion sets in, I have been using the old ploy of nodding and answering everything with “Si,” hoping that my affirmative response makes sense. I got away with this a few times, until I met two gentlemen on the Malecon – the broad promenade that runs along the ocean. They were sitting in a street cafe in front of a hotel, sipping over-sweetened Nescafe and playing chess on a battered board. Permission to take their photo came with a price: the older of the two launched into a philosophical stream of consciousness about the game of chess. Between his thick dialect, the blaring music, and noisy traffic, I understood only that he meets his friends there each night, that he doesn’t care if he wins or loses or how many pieces he captures, and something about the sunset. Politely, I just kept nodding and responding “Si.” Suddenly he stopped, looked over at his chess mate and shook his head. His next words, though still in Spanish, were embarrassingly clear to me. “She doesn’t understand a word I have said!”

Sunset along the Malecon

I sat down and listened more carefully. He was trying to explain what is truly important in life: good friends, good times, and beauty. He told me to slow down and open my eyes, gesturing toward the west, where a giant red ball was sinking slowly into the ocean, streaking the sky in gold and lavender. Believing that his message had finally been understood, he smiled a toothless grin and announced, “Now you may take your photo.” Sufficiently chastened, I snapped a quick shot and took my leave, but not before wishing him what so many other Mazatlecos have already wished me: “Te Dios bendiga.” May God bless you. “Igualmente,” he replied. The same to you.

24 Comments on “Putting On My Long Term Travel Skin

  1. Wow, this city is about to go through a huge change. Due to the development of the Mazatlan-Durango highway cutting though the Sierra Madre the connectivity to this port to the U.S. border will be much easier. They already have a huge, but sustainable, resort area planned; a new baseball stadium; a marina; a port for the cruise ships and the beautification of not only the historic center but also the whole city.

  2. Nice illustrated the journey. It is also important to remember in the life as well

  3. Despite living in Tucson, where I am surrounded by Spanish speakers, I still am at sea in the language. Do envy people who can pick up another language.
    This is a lovely, lovely post.

  4. I remember French words flying out of my mouth when I lived there. And how my brain got tired of translating my “English” thoughts into French words. Love your blog & your exciting life.

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  6. Beautifully written! I love they way you paint a portrait of the people you meet in this post. It brings back to mind the wonderful experiences I had living and traveling in New Mexico for three years. Keep up the wonderful writing and photos!

    • Thank you, style! I am having a wonderful time, just rollin’ with the flow.

  7. i can totally relate to that feeling of language fatigue, i know how that just wears you right out. but mexico! oh! how wonderful that you’re there! i was so enchanted by the charm of the people there that i immediately regretted it had been so little a part of my travels.

    • Hi Pam: Mexico has always drawn me. The people are absolutely wonderful and there is so much to see and do here. I am in Cabo San Lucas at the moment, which is about the least Mexican city I’ve ever visited – tourism has truly ruined it, but other than that I’ve had wonderful experiences so far. And so much more to come. Remote Copper Canyon and the Tarahumara Indians coming up soon, so stay tuned!

  8. Beautiful post from Mexico! I totally relate to your “language exhaustion” episodes. Happy travels!

  9. Oh Barbara, an other one of your beautifully and excellent written articles. I love that ending – That’s what travel is all about to me. Those shared moments with total strangers that dissolve any frustrating moment that occurred before. Happy travels and keep on having a blast, chica!

  10. What a rad story!

    Love the opening line: “Like a man who has two wives…” Spot on! On my last trip, it took me 2 weeks to get into the traveling groove! (And don’t even get me started on the Nescafe!)

  11. I love and live in mazatlan,I’m glad that you like this wonderful place in mexico. very nice shots!

  12. You captured one of my favorite parts of travel…the beginning when your mind is struggling to adapt. That adaptation (both in other countries and re-entering into my own) is an addiction to me! Sounds like you are doing great!
    Plus – I had no idea you knew Spanish…how fun!

    • Hi Sherry. “Know Spanish” is a subjective phrase 🙂 But it’s starting to all come back to me now….I am having a blast.

  13. Barb you brought me to that moment with you. Thank you for the quick getaway through your post and the insight of your travels. I’m so happy you found your travel rhythm quickly and I’m sure you feel like things are as they should be 🙂

  14. Such a great lesson of life told and illustrated so beautifully.

  15. Wonderful post. I don’t know how you do it all. I like the important things in life lesson.

  16. Lovely! What better way to hit your stride (again) than slowing down and listening? I’m looking forward to your insights during this journey.

  17. Slowing down when traveling allows you to see so much more. Before I was always trying to get to the next place rushing from here and there but have found the pleasure of taking my time. It gives you a unique experience that many who rush by miss.

  18. The Mazatlan sidewalks remind me of the sidewalks in the French Quarter in New Orleans. But at least I can look down without getting lost.

    Now, if I could just learn to slow down and open my eyes” every minute of the day. Seems I always need a reminder. Thanks, Barbara.

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