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Barbara Weibel After years of working 70 hours a week at jobs I detested, I felt like the proverbial "hole in the donut" - solid on the outside, but empty on the inside. Searching for meaning in my life, I abandoned my successful but unsatisfying career and set out on a six-month solo backpacking trip around the world to pursue my true passions of travel, writing, and photography. My blog features stories about the destinations I visit, people I meet, the crazy things...Read more here....
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Though the rainy season was months away, angry gray skies threatened on the morning I was scheduled to travel from Luang Prabang to Nong Khiaw, Laos. As if trying to outrun the impending rain, our maniacal mini van driver sped full bore through packs of children walking to school, straddling the center line as he negotiated blind curves on the winding mountain roads, arriving 45 minutes earlier than usual.

Nong Khiaw, on the banks of the Nam Ou River

Nong Khiaw, on the banks of the Nam Ou River

A shuttle bus carried me through town to the other side of the Nam Ou River, where I got the last available room at family run MeeXai Bungalows for 60,000 Kip per night (about $8 U.S.). I kicked my boots off on the porch and threw open the door to my home for the next three nights, an adorable bamboo hut on stilts with an attached open-air bathroom. Sighing contentedly, I sank into the huge mosquito net-draped bed just as the first fat drops of rain pinged the tin roof. With no coat or even a sweatshirt in my backpack I decided to defer dinner until the rain slackened. Instead, I propped myself up with two pillows, pulled the duvet up to my chest and popped open my laptop, determined to catch up on writing. The gentle rain soon turned to a downpour, bringing with it a chill that crept through gaps in the wooden floorboards and open space between the bamboo walls and roof. By 8 p.m. my cold fingers had turned to thumbs on the keyboard; I crawled under the covers and let the thrumming rain carry me off to sleep.

Stunning karst limestone peaks surround the town of Nong Khiaw

Stunning karst limestone peaks surround the town of Nong Khiaw

The same staccato music that had lulled me to sleep woke me the next morning. I extracted one arm from beneath the cozy bedcovers and tested the temperature. It was definitely too cold to brave a shower in the outdoor bathroom, but I could no longer ignore my hunger. I shivered into my heaviest pants, three t-shirts and my only long-sleeved shirt and trekked to the nearest restaurant, slipping and sliding in rain-slicked red clay that sucked at my boots. By noon the raging storm was the main topic of conversation in town. Deluges like this are uncommon in Laos; even during the wet season it usually rains for only a few hours each day and the forecast predicted continued rain for the next three days. Superstitious Lao were convinced that this storm was the result of the recent tsunami in Japan and no amount of explanation could convince them otherwise.

With no chance of the rain abating I seized this opportunity to witness what life is like during the monsoons. Crossing back over the river I strolled down the main street, a sea of ochre that slithered past wooden bungalows painted in vivid hues and storefronts where proprietors hunkered under awnings, shivering in the unseasonal morning chill. A moveable garden of colored umbrellas bloomed over students walking or bicycling to school. Like a painting of an ethereal Shangri-La, jungle-clad limestone hills thrust abruptly up, their muted green humps piercing dull gray skies. Aside from the school children, who shyly returned my Sabaidee – hello – no one smiled or even acknowledged my presence. To the adults, it seemed I was invisible.

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The following morning I continued my soggy pilgrimage, heading for Pathok Cave. Each time I glanced from beneath my umbrella images of Lao life imprinted on my memory like scenes from a movie. A family of four huddled miserably around a cook stove beneath a bamboo awning, struggling to stay warm. Wrapped from head to toe in a grey blanket, a withered man squatted in a doorway, staring vacantly out at the rain. While for some, rain interrupted the daily routine, for others the weather was simply an inconvenience. Rain streamed off the conical straw hat of a girl carrying twin baskets from a pole strung across her shoulders, keeping only her head and shoulders dry. Two women shoved rocks behind the wheels of their wooden hand carts and began filling five-gallon jugs at a local spring; water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink.

A mile later I squished down a sticky clay path, tentatively crossed a swinging bridge of rain-soaked logs, and slid down a hill, nearly landing in the stream at the base of the hill, before arriving at the cave entrance. A northern headquarters for the Pathet-Lao forces during the Lao civil war, Pathok Cave today bears no evidence of those turbulent times. I climbed the staircase to the dark interior of the cave and groped my way around, using the rock walls as a guide until my eyes adjusted to the dimness. A ghostly girl appeared at my side and touched my forearm. She followed me around silently but when I turned to leave determinedly stuck her hand out and demanded: “Money!“ For what?” I asked, knowing she could not understand me. I turned my back and ignored her but she followed on her bicycle, hurling accusations from her saucer eyes as I retraced my steps to the village.

Unfortunately, this was the norm rather than the exception in Nong Khiaw. Almost every child that I tried to engage in conversation look at me suspiciously and either refused to respond to my Sabaidee, or answered by asking for money or pens. It may be that the soggy weather had dampened everyone’s spirits, or perhaps the seeming unfriendliness of Nong Khiaw has evolved because so many tourists use it as an overnight stay on their way further upriver to Muang Ngoi Neua. Still, I don’t regret the three days I spent shivering in this tiny village. It was a rare opportunity to witness real life rather than they typical scenes afforded most tourists, and the exquisite beauty of the area is undeniable.

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