About Me (Barbara Weibel)

Barbara Weibel After years of working 70 hours a week at jobs I detested, I felt like the proverbial "hole in the donut" - solid on the outside, but empty on the inside. Searching for meaning in my life, I abandoned my successful but unsatisfying career and set out on a six-month solo backpacking trip around the world to pursue my true passions of travel, writing, and photography. My blog features stories about the destinations I visit, people I meet, the crazy things...Read more here....


A tall, middle-aged man just walked into Pastry Art, my favorite coffee shop and bakery in downtown Sarasota. He opened the door a smidge and squeezed through, barring the large Golden Retriever that accompanied him from entering.

“Stay outside,” he said, pointing to one of the tables near the curb. The dog walked away temporarily, but the minute the man stepped to the counter to order he returned and plunked his butt squarely in front of the door. With nose touching glass and tongue lolling out of his mouth, the Retriever watched his master’s every move. His panting fogged the glass in an ever growing circle that impaired his view but still he sat, immobile and fixated on his master.

Eventually, another customer came along. The moment the door was cracked open, the Retriever dashed inside and ran to his master. “Go outside!” the man said sternly, as he opened the door and pointed to the curb. Dejectedly, the Retriever returned to his place under the table, waiting for the moment when they could be reunited. When the man finally stepped outside, the Retriever could barely contain his joy, greeting his master with wagging tail and nuzzles.

Throughout the whole incident, the man frowned and scowled. From the way he petted and spoke to the Retriever while they sat together at the curbside table, it was obvious that he loves the dog. But I couldn’t help wondering if he knows how lucky he is to be the recipient of such love and devotion.

This incident started me thinking about the fact that animals, much more than humans, seem to have a capacity for unconditional love. Recently I’ve come across two stories that illustrate this. The first is a YouTube video of two otters at the Vancouver Aquarium in Vancouver, Canada, who float around holding hands. It is too cute; you just have to see it:

tarra-bella

Tarra nuzzles Bella with her trunk. Photo courtesy of CBS Evening News.

The second is a story about the Elephant Sanctuary in Hohenwald, Tennessee, where elephants go when they retire. Each elephant, upon arriving at the sanctuary, chooses a companion with whom they share the rest of their lives. The are, of course, pachyderm pairs. Except for Tarra and Bella. Tarra is an 8,700 pound Asian elephant, and Bella is one of more than a dozen stray dogs that have found a home at the sanctuary. Tarra and Bella are BFF’s (“Best Friends Forever,” for those of you who are not clued into the new Internet shorthand). Even the staff at the sanctuary did not understand the commitment between this unlikely duo until recently. Read what happened when Bella became seriously ill.

At the close of this last story the author asks: “Take good look at this couple, America. Take a good look world. If they can do it – what’s our excuse?” My sentiments exactly.

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  • http://www.travel-wonders.com Mark H

    Somehow animals seem to have more sense of friendship and loyalty than we do. There is a lesson that could be learned.

    Mark H’s last blog post..Top Ten Hidden Travel Wonders of Paris – Part 3

  • http://www.travel-wonders.com Mark H

    Somehow animals seem to have more sense of friendship and loyalty than we do. There is a lesson that could be learned.

    Mark H’s last blog post..Top Ten Hidden Travel Wonders of Paris – Part 3

  • http://spatter.typepad.com June

    Yes, indeed…animals exude love in its purest form. We are blessed to have them in our lives! Those otters are sweeeeet…

    June’s last blog post..Lefties

  • http://spatter.typepad.com June

    Yes, indeed…animals exude love in its purest form. We are blessed to have them in our lives! Those otters are sweeeeet…

    June’s last blog post..Lefties

  • http://www.duchessomnium.com Duchess

    Lovely story. Sweet video! And I expect the scowling man did know how lucky he was — he just wanted the dog to know it was misbehaving. BTW thanks for explaining BFF.

    Duchess’s last blog post..Burns Night

  • http://www.duchessomnium.com Duchess

    Lovely story. Sweet video! And I expect the scowling man did know how lucky he was — he just wanted the dog to know it was misbehaving. BTW thanks for explaining BFF.

    Duchess’s last blog post..Burns Night

  • http://www.chattanooga-homes-tn.com Chattanooga Property

    Elephant Sanctuary in Hohenwald, Tennessee

    “Nice Story Of Tarra &Villa & Nice Pic Of Both Friends”

  • http://www.chattanooga-homes-tn.com Chattanooga Property

    Elephant Sanctuary in Hohenwald, Tennessee

    “Nice Story Of Tarra &Villa & Nice Pic Of Both Friends”

  • http://www.franklin-homes-tn.com Franklin Homes

    I Read whole story of Two friends tarra and villa
    and i like too much

    “Nice Story Of Tarra &Villa & Nice Pic Of Both Friends”

  • http://www.franklin-homes-tn.com Franklin Homes

    I Read whole story of Two friends tarra and villa
    and i like too much

    “Nice Story Of Tarra &Villa & Nice Pic Of Both Friends”

  • Katelyn

    Awwwwwww cute!

  • Katelyn

    Awwwwwww cute!

  • http://irh.us.com Holly – Africa Holiday

    Awwww. The otters are unbelievably cute, and the story of the golden retriever really moved me, as I am fortunate enough to have a beautiful golden retriever boy, named Tucker, sharing my life.

    I feel that true “unconditional love” can not be expressed in a better way than the bonds that can develop between animals, awa animals and humans. Now only if we could get our cats to understand this….

  • http://irh.us.com Holly – Africa Holiday

    Awwww. The otters are unbelievably cute, and the story of the golden retriever really moved me, as I am fortunate enough to have a beautiful golden retriever boy, named Tucker, sharing my life.

    I feel that true “unconditional love” can not be expressed in a better way than the bonds that can develop between animals, awa animals and humans. Now only if we could get our cats to understand this….

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