About Me (Barbara Weibel)

Barbara Weibel After years of working 70 hours a week at jobs I detested, I felt like the proverbial "hole in the donut" - solid on the outside, but empty on the inside. Searching for meaning in my life, I abandoned my successful but unsatisfying career and set out on a six-month solo backpacking trip around the world to pursue my true passions of travel, writing, and photography. My blog features stories about the destinations I visit, people I meet, the crazy things...Read more here....


For the past five days I’ve been staying at the Sunset Bungalows on the northern tip of the island of Zanzibar, near the village of Nungwi. Initially, things did not go smoothly. On my first day I had lunch at the resort’s restaurant on the beach and tried to charge the meal to my room, intending to pay the entire bill when I checked out. For some reason they did not want me to do this, but the waiter was unable to explain why. I eventually had to hunt down the general manager for an explanation. Apparently the restaurant and the resort are owned by two different people and there is no accounting system in place that allows them to track charges from the restaurant. I could have charged meals each day but then would have had to clear the bill the next morning – fat lot of good that would have done me. I also discovered in this same conversation that the resort does not accept credit or debit cards, yet they never informed me of this prior to arriving. Fortunately I had enough cash with me to cover my food and incidentals during my stay but I met a lot of people who got caught short and were literally living on potato chips.

The restaurant’s food was terrible, the refrigerator in my room didn’t work, I had no towels, and I had WARM water (not hot) only two of the five days I was there – the rest of the time it was ice cold. The resorts to the north and south all had lounge chairs set out but the beach in front of Sunset was bare. When I asked the manager where I could get a chair he said all theirs had broken and they “had not been able to replace them.” He suggested I use the chairs from the adjacent resorts. I did better than that. I spent ALL my money at the adjacent resorts for the balance of my stay.

Nungwi Beach, on the northern tip of Zanziibar

Masage therapists roam the beach, hawking their services

Every day, the moment I plopped down on the sand I was bombarded by people trying to sell me something. “Hello, good morning, welcome to massage, you like massage today?” Or, “I bring you nice fresh fruit, green coconut maybe?” Or even the incessant tour operators who never gave up trying to talk me into taking a snorkeling trip to yonder island or a two hour sunset cruise on a traditional Dhow. As if that wasn’t enough one of the local men followed me around all day, every day – repeatedly telling me he wanted to get married and make babies. Each day I none-too patiently explained that I am 55 and well beyond the baby-making age, not to mention that I wasn’t the least bit interested, but that seemed to make no impression. He continued to hound me. All I wanted was to be left alone to relax. Eventually I got so frustrated that I started being rude – either I ignored them completely or spoke sharply to them. It made ME feel bad to treat them that way but there seemed to be no other way to get them to leave me alone. Adding insult to injury, there was no Internet access at the Sunset Bungalows, and although there was Internet available at two of the other resorts along the beach, the connection was so slow that it was impossible to upload photos.

Traditional dhow sails through an orange sunset

Locals fish from hand carved dugout canoes

Stunning beaches stretch for miles in either direction

To visit the village of Nungwi you can walk the beach, but you have to time the tide just right in order to get around this headland

Relaxing on Nungwi Beach

Another gorgeous sunset

As always, I took the view that everything happens for a reason. I focused on the positive aspects and tried to ignore the problems. The beach was spectacular – a broad expanse of sugar-fine, soft white sand and crystal clear turquoise waters. It certainly ranks up there with the top ten beaches I have ever visited. The sunsets were awesome, each evening outdoing the previous night’s display.

Sun sinks lower

Enjoying the last rays from under the palapa

Lone boat remains

The other restaurants I found up and down the beach had excellent food. I had two massages for about $12 each. My room was nice with a most comfortable bed and I got some much needed sleep. I stopped worrying about posting to the blog – I figured by now everyone would know that I was in a place without an Internet connection.

It is now five days later. I haven’t worn shoes for five days and my only clothes have been a bikini and a sarong. My mind has shut down completely. I mean, I’ve just stopped THINKING all the time about every little thing. It took five days but I am finally, totally content and worry free. I have let go of all stress. What a wonderful, serene frame of mind this is. If only I could find a way to sustain it. But I know I have to go back into the real world soon and all the same daily stresses will creep back in. Maybe, just maybe, I can hold onto just a little piece of this bliss so I never completely revert to that previous state of total stress. Only time will tell how well I have learned my lesson……

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  • http://www.frontporchcafe.net Paul & Susannah

    Barb,

    We enjoyed seeing you this past week and loved seeing your house. Wish you joy (and peace) in your travels!

    Hey–maybe you should keep your house and do monthly retreats for women like yourself–and what a great place to have them!

    Love,
    Paul, Suz & Townes

  • http://www.frontporchcafe.net Paul & Susannah

    Barb,

    We enjoyed seeing you this past week and loved seeing your house. Wish you joy (and peace) in your travels!

    Hey–maybe you should keep your house and do monthly retreats for women like yourself–and what a great place to have them!

    Love,
    Paul, Suz & Townes

  • Ella

    Hi there Barb;
    I am sorry to hear that you had such a rough stay at Sunset. I too stayed there for 7 days about a year ago, and yes I did experience some of the same issues, but wow what a stress free week it turned out to be! I am glad that you got to the non-thinking point as well. I hated leaving such a beautiful island and am trying to get back there quickly.

    Thank you for sharing your pictures, I have many, many similar ones from my travels through Tanzania and Zanzibar.

    Ella

  • Ella

    Hi there Barb;
    I am sorry to hear that you had such a rough stay at Sunset. I too stayed there for 7 days about a year ago, and yes I did experience some of the same issues, but wow what a stress free week it turned out to be! I am glad that you got to the non-thinking point as well. I hated leaving such a beautiful island and am trying to get back there quickly.

    Thank you for sharing your pictures, I have many, many similar ones from my travels through Tanzania and Zanzibar.

    Ella

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